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Not what I wanted to hear….

I got some good news on Friday. I got some disappointing news on Friday. I had been telling myself to prepare for something, but the something still caught me by surprise. Now, I’m working it out mentally and emotionally. It… Read more >

When you think you know what you should be afraid of…

You can read this blog or know me a little and know I’ve had some loss. Andy has had some loss. These losses have certainly helped shape my adult life in a couple of ways. I’m a little terrified of… Read more >

The new me?

I have been so amazed by the love and support from my last post. The only thing that seems appropriate is a humble… Thank you! In the spirit of transparency, I’m sitting here on the eve before surgery to remove… Read more >

“Well, that’s a lot of shit.”

Last post I skipped what was really going on with me. I did it because I wasn’t really dealing with it well. Not sure I am now, but I have to come clean. For myself. So forgive me this post,… Read more >

MF 2020 – Let it go!

The title almost says enough, right? What a year. And it’s only June. While this year continues to give the gifts of change, one thing keeps coming to mind, “what lesson do we need to be learning?” When I say… Read more >

Bandaids

We always learn from life, from good and bad situations. We do other things too, especially with the difficult situations. Today I’m talking about those “bandaids.” We lost our bitchy but loved lab Maggie in January. She died from cancer… Read more >

No Self-Sabotage…

I tell myself the same story, every day…tomorrow will be different, tomorrow I’ll do it, tomorrow… I was sitting with my SO enjoying one of the last cocktails of 2018, discussing resolutions, intentions and thinking about 2019. He was musing… Read more >

BigLifeLove Manifesto

As my children are getting older and starting to experience first romantic love, that first emotional and physical connection, that first everything, I keep thinking about what I want them to know about love. What are lessons I learned through… Read more >